After a year of searching, I found an Honrary Mother! Jonis, a friend of mine, about four years older, will be my Honorary Mother, and her husband will be my Honorary Father. We're planning to have a ceremony to make this official. That'll be sometime in March.

Basically, It all deals with my family's villa in China. A Feng Shui Master examined our villa: Our Chinese villa is built ontop of a burial ground. The spirits of the ghosts were upset by this, and they cursed the house, stating that all male heirs to the villa will be cursed by dying at a young age. My grandfather died in his mid-forties due to lung cancer. (he was a heavy smoker). My father dies in his mid-forties due to liver cancer (he was in late stage of cancer when he found out it was cancer) And then, there's me with a heart attack and weaken heart.

To break the curse; I must find a Honorary 'Protective Guardian' Mother. Basically, a 'God-Mother' so-to-speak. I must respect her like a mother, and she must respect me as a son. It's suppose to state: Double the Mother; Double the Love; Double the Protection.

So, I found one, willing to commit, and I'm very honoured. Sure, it's a bunch of mumble jumbo, but heck, I'm in for it.